I think people go through three major changes in life
When I first started blogging years ago, I wrote on LiveJournal and met a number of people I still keep in touch with.
I actually like Facebook for what it is: A way to keep up with the lives of people you know (kinda) without having to interact with them unless you actually choose to.
But, on the flip side, I miss good long-form writing. Twitter, FB, and the like are good for quick quips or pithy observations but not for thoughtful prose.
In any case, when I was on LJ, I met a number of young married people. Off the top of my head, I can count ten.
All of them ended up getting divorced except for one young lady, who called me out of the blue this weekend asking for some advice on how to get a divorce.
As an odd by-product of that period of time when I was actively dating, I’ve developed a good ability to sense when a couple is headed for a break-up or divorce. It’s not 100%, but it’s pretty good.
I think that people go through three major changes in their life. People try out a personality in their late teens and early 20s – usually becoming a genre of a person – but often become someone different in their late 20s, then again in their middle 30s.
I think that I’ve settled into who I’m supposed to be at this point in my life although some people think that more change is ahead.
The thing about young people getting married young is that you’ve got two people that probably did see the world the same way in that first period but don’t last through the second and third.
Years ago, people did – my parents did, and so did yours, I suppose – but with the world getting smaller, it’s a lot easier to try and find someone that sees life the way you do rather than try and convince someone to see it your way.
Anywho, breakups are hard, regardless of the reasons why.
Me: Is it really over?
Friend: Yes, I think so.
Me: I’m sorry to hear it. OK, here’s what you have to do…
Music: been all around the world, marching to the beat of a different drum
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