Seeing around the world
Son: You’re not watching the news?
Me: The DVR didn’t record for some reason.
Him: No news?! How are we going to see around the world?
I forgot my anniversary the other day. We got married exactly a decade ago.
Put another way, it would have been our ten-year anniversary this week.
My son’s first sitter was in town so he spent the day with her while I worked on my taxes and some personal items. I just forgot.
I wonder what’s better: That I forgot and it was a productive day or that I remembered and drank myself into a stupor.
Survivor’s guilt is real and devastating. Every good moment I have with the boy, there’s some small part of me that feels that it should be Alison here seeing the kid laugh or say something brilliantly hilarious.
After all, nothing really compares to a mother’s love.
Even though I love the boy so, she woulda loved him more.
Me: I made you something to drink.
Him: Yes! Cold lemonade is soooo good on a hot sunny day.
In some ways, he’s lucky that he didn’t know her; he has no idea what he’s lost.
Realized that I forgot it tonight while taking and shower and my knees went weak.
I must have stayed in there a really long time because when I came out…
Him: What took you so long?
Me: I had to make sure I was clean.
Him: That long? You are super clean!
Me: (laughing) Yes, I’m super clean. (sighing)
Him: Oh. You were thinking of mommy.
Me: Yes, my smart little boy. I was.
Another anniversary without the person the anniversary was for.
And just like that, I’m back in the basement of my brain again.