I met up with my SIL in Hoboken with the kid for dinner. I wanted to go to Benny Tudinos.
Her: Why do you want to go there? There are so many better options!
Me: I thought the kid might like it.
Alison brought me there years ago, after I told her about Koronet Pizza here in the UWS – a place known for having absurdly large pizza slices.
She then told me to meet her in Hoboken where she brought me to Benny’s, which has something similar.
Walking there was the longest time I spent in Alison’s part of Hoboken since she died.
It was surreal and sad, and I’ll leave it at that.
In any case, I told the kid that the pizza was bigger than him and he was (somewhat) impressed when he saw it.
Her: (to him) Is it good?
Me: It’s pizza, of course it’s good to him.
Boy: (nods enthusiastically while eating)
I ordered a pitcher of sangria for us but she could only have a glass because she was driving so I finished the rest.
Ended up crashing early that night because of all the alcohol while the boy stayed over with her.
Just as well; it got me ready for Daylight Savings.
The next night, the buddy that I told you about in this entry was in my nabe and stopped by for dinner.
Me: Do you remember the two of us meeting?
Him: (thinking) I’m sorry, I don’t.
Me: (laughing) That’s fine. Mouse remembered the other guy I was with when we met and not me. That’s kinda how I like it – to blend into the background and not be seen unless I wanna be seen.
Him: Well, you accomplished that with both of us then!
We didn’t have much money so we got neither – but that’s neither here nor there.
When I got older, I found out that they were called Coleco because they were once the Connecticut Leather Company.
In a similar vein, when I was working for a Fortune 500 company, my boss gave me two jewels to manage: Samsung and LG. At they time, they were big but not the behemoths they are now.
When I went to the meeting with LG, I called them Lucky Goldstar a few times because that was their original name and what I knew them as, as a kid.
That’s when one of them stopped me in mid-sales pitch to tell me:
Him: We’re just LG. We stopped being Lucky Goldstar years ago. Please stop calling us that.
Eventually, everything got smoothed out but that and the ColecoVision story stayed with me all these
years decades because it reminds me that things and people are more complex than we think and that reinvention is a lot more common than we think as well.
My buddy lost some friends because he’s changing and they don’t like that but that’s what people and things do.
When I was Hoboken, I wasn’t sure what bothered me more: The things that didn’t change and were exactly like they was when Alison and I were there or the things that had changed so very much.
The boy’s growing up quickly. He’s outgrown most of the clothes that I feel I just got for him.
And while I was writing this entry, Gio hit me up; he’s selling his apartment and moving upstate for more space for his family.
I was his attorney for that purchase, which happened way back in 2013. Seems like yesterday.
Everything keep changing on me but I have to remember that it’s usually good for them that they change, even though I want some things to stay the same.
I wish so many things stayed the same. Then again, I wish for a lotta things.
Him: When will I be a teenager?
Me: I suppose when you’re thirteen. That’s eight years from now.
Him: That’s a long time from now.
Me: Tomorrow always comes a day too soon. For now, just stay my little boy, ok?
Him: Ok, papa. (thinking) Eight years…wow…
Location: freezing on West 70th today
Music: the winds are always changing, and the clouds are rearranging (Spotify)
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