Kindness in the world
The hits keep coming. Thought I was out of the woods (again) when my messaging apps started to be targeted.
Lost all my messages with Alison, Gradgirl, everyone.
It’s been exhausting. As soon as I patch one thing, something new breaks. Part of me wonders if they just want to drive me insane.
Before COVID, the (humongous) building next to us would invite the kid and me over to celebrate.
We had friends in the building and were friends with the staff, but this one older fella there always made sure we got an invite, just in case our friends or the staff didn’t invite us.
Just found out that he’s the condo president there.
I remain touched by all the kindness in the world.
Him: Can you come?
Me: Can we? We’re flattered we’re even invited!
Him: Of course you’re invited, you’re my guests!
The kid and my friend’s kid don’t really hang out much beyond this one sweet Halloween tradition, just because of scheduling and life, but the mom remarked:
Her: It’s funny, they never really see each other but when they do, it’s like no time has passed at all.
Me: (laughing) I suppose that’s how it is with good friends.
He had a grand time. And got waaaaaay too many sweets. That’s him as the fireman.
The president and our friends invited us to stay for the party afterward and it was nice, just sitting back and seeing the kid be a kid.
Although, to be fair, I did eat my fill of shrimp, pasta, and sausage and peppers.
The ABFF also invited us to go hang out with them like last year and I had some invites to things as well but I was too wrapped up in all the madness to do much beyond just let the kid play and try to be present for him.
Maybe next year, I’ll do something for myself.
It’s been ages since I went out for Halloween.
Location: my couch, with an empty bottle of rum on the table
Music: a sweet load of sugar-coated cherry pie (Spotify)
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