A sleepover and then Shanghainese food
So, the whole reason that the kids went out for a sleepover with my sis was because my sister ran into her sixth-grade teacher and she invited my sister out to her beach house.
That, in a nutshell, tells you all you need to know about my sister.
She is as nice and kind as I am not.
Legit, only someone like my sister would get invited to someone’s house that she’s not seen in over 35 years.
Now, my sis sent me that picture above, but she noted that – for some inexplicable reason – AI changed everyone’s faces.
That’s why I’m not blocking out my kid’s face in the pic above, because AI already changed it. In fact, everyone’s picture was changed.
So. Weird.
He’s supposed to be the one resting his head on his cousin’s head in the middle.
My sis meeting her teacher made me think of Mrs. Reynolds and Mrs. Meltzer, two of the four teachers that were probably the most impactful in my life.
I wish I took down Mrs. Reynolds number or reached out to Mrs. Meltzer when I could have. They were such good people and teachers – I think everyone owes some good thing in one’s life to a good teacher.
One of these days, I’ll tell you about the other two teachers that I felt made the most difference in my life.
I didn’t get to see my mom just because she was in church at the time.
She’s at an age when she’s got a lot of free time but doesn’t quite know what to do with herself outside of work.
She’s got the most amazing green thumb, though, so I’m always trying to convince her to garden more.
I suppose, secretly, it’s also because I want some free, homegrown veggies.
Speaking of veggies, Sara and I liked the restaurant that we went to the previous day so much – it’s called Shanghai You Garden – that we decided to go again and bring the boys.
Him: Papa, can I get the cucumbers?
Me: Dude, I will always buy you any vegetable you want.
Him: Really?!
Me: Yup, done.
As for Sara and me, we essentially did a complete repeat of what we had the previous day.
Because when we find something we like, we run with it.
Afterwards, we all took a little walk around before heading home.
Sara’s kid entering his last year of middle school while my kid is entering his first.
This will be the first year that they’re going to the same school at the same time.
I wonder what this year will bring; actually, I wonder that every year.
He’s growing up so fast that I can’t keep up, which is both good and bad.
Him: Papa, can I tell you about the sleepover and the beach?
Me: I’d love to hear it! Lemme just get settled.
Him: OK! So, there’s this shower that’s the coolest shower, ever! It has three knobs and when you turn on the middle one, the water comes outta the bottom so you can test with your foot if it’s too hot or cold. Anyway…
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Location: in front of my scanner, scanning pictures of people I love and miss, terribly
Mood: melancholy
Music: I’m kinda in a better mood (Spotify)
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